Change is inevitable

Once something takes physical form, Change is inevitable. Look therefore beyond physics to find the constant for that is the essence of home; the safe reliable place from which you can explore and be bold and learn to except change as lessons about humanity and the world around you.

7 thoughts on “Change is inevitable

  1. Love this, Trini! โ€œChange as lessons about humanity and the world around you.โ€ Love the immersion of that, the being present in one;s environment… and of course wearing a HazMat suit in some, extending gratitude in others.

      • Yes, I would say especially when we want to escape. Those times often present the potential gifts of messages to face directly, and listen to rather than combat. They often ease up, realize if they harm you, they have no home. It takes quite a bit of empathic Silence, an intense move and experience in itself to allow them to burn their fuel off until they are brought into the present as well. And, I can say without wavering from 1st hand experience, itโ€™s beyond well worth it. One integrates more of themself. One doses oneself with the medicine of more of who they truly are and can be. ๐Ÿ™‚

      • Love this, Jordan! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š So eloquently put ๐ŸŒท๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐ŸŒท. I especially love the โ€œempathic silenceโ€. That is a beautiful description ๐ŸŒธ.

      • Thank you, Trini! It’s something I learned in Brainspotting. ESPECIALLY when Psychological Parts arrive on the internal scene in a fury and feeling dangerous and beyond angry… that… well, give ’em some credit. That trauma may have been couped up for 40+ years. So, realizing you are their home, you wholebody listen to them without a word for as long as it takes. And, that’s the guts of empathic silence and boundaries developed to lose shame and guilt for more of the simply face things… and that’s where one of my favorite quotes comes in:

        “Trees with strong roots laugh at storms.” ~ Malay Proverb

        I find that is US when we face things with empathic Silence. THey come in hot, and every question is urgent to the asker, every accusation the focus of the accusing… yet not to me… not yet. I decide that, not the interruptor. ๐Ÿ™‚

      • Thanks. I eel itโ€™s one of the most beautiful as well. Just oozes the Empathic Silence of sovereignty where one is strong enough not to not just be not threatened, though to as well be strong enough to be gentle. Questions, regardless of how harsh, imply interest. And, I feel that extends to how receive someoneโ€™s sharing. I mean, thereโ€™s legit danger where you up and skidaddle, though I donโ€™t find that the norm in my life. If itโ€™s like that, though, thatโ€™s way ok, too. Works similarly.

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