Change your life by changing your thoughts. Let go of fearful thinking and plan a future that leads you to a more joyful life! An ending is always the path to a new beginning. A heart sometimes roars, but often it whispers, take time in your day to be quiet and listen to it. That is the only way to match your actions and your thoughts with who you truly are, and by doing that, be everything you can be!
The world needs you, more than you need the world! Claim your light, embrace the warmth, give yourself confidence to step forward! Stay centered and grounded in your core and shine calmly, but steadily so as not to be too soon burned down by the inner drama of your emotions. You truly can make a difference! You are a creator of spiritual and creative abundance! Be innovative and follow your own path when it comes to career and purpose. Be an advocate for your principles and don’t let fear come in your way. Know when you are right and have the courage to never back down when you are called upon to claim your personal power. There is immense beauty in bravery!
Making other people happy is an easy way to make yourself happy, but when we strain ourselves too much, when we use other people’s happiness to forget about our pain, when there is an imbalance between input and output, it can be harmful to our health and cause an addictive behavioral pattern where you become dependent on others for your happiness. Trying too hard to please others can cause stress-related illnesses as much as a high-pressure job can.
Taking care of your own needs is not selfish it is healthy! Yes, some of us have different needs than others, like much needed alone-time, long moments of silence, a lot of rest, etc. that can sometimes irritate people who can’t relate to it. But we need to take care of our special needs anyway and ignore those who try to make us feel bad for being the way we are. Imagine if you don’t take care of your needs and come down with a stress-related illness that ends you up in hospital. Most likely those same people will come to you saying: “Why didn’t you just speak up for yourself and tell us what you needed?”
Everyone wants to be the cause of someone else’s happiness, but no one wants to be the cause of someone else’s pain. When you don’t take care of your own needs and don’t speak up for yourself you unintentionally put someone in that position. And that, I imagine, if you are anything like me, is the last thing you want.
When your heart is open to be guided by the soul, the part of you that belongs to eternity, you can be assured that you are doing exactly what you are supposed to do. Everything will fall into place as long as you notice and follow the small signs that occur on a daily basis. Train yourself to keep your focus intact so that you truly see them. You might find that new ideas and ways of dealing with life may suddenly pop into your head. Follow these ideas. If you do, your life will move in the right direction; towards harmony and balance. You already have everything you need inside of yourself. Trust yourself.
Shift your thoughts to a new perspective where you take a full overview of what is really going on in your life. Imagine looking at your life from a higher ground. Shifting your perspective on the situation may help you see the wholeness of it and it will seem more clear, You may even discover a new path you couldn’t see before. Imagine a fly wandering around on a drawing paper, it will only be able to make out the pattern of the individual lines and see the whole picture once it takes flight .By doing this you will rediscover what is really important to you and what you need to focus on. Pour all your energy into this new path with the intention of wholeness and higher ground perspective. A beautiful outcome will await you.